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How Should A Mature Responsible Husband Act?

Justina-Elinor, 2007-04-18 14:26:36
My husband and I have the same quarrel all the time and I want to know if I am in the wrong. (1)He wants to gamble on the online casinos even if we are broke>(then lies about the $$, even though he knows I will catch him) I say it is a recreation and only extra $$ can be spent. (2) He says he should be able to come and go as he pleases any time he wants.> I say, lets compromise and you pick 1 night a week that belongs to you and I will do the same. He says that I am trying to control him and tell him what to do. When I try to tell him how I feel about these things he brushes me off and tries to make me the bad guy, always reminding me that because he works that he is "taking care of me and the kids". He runs his own biz and I do all of the clerical, web, advertising, etc...Now can anyone help me out? I am about to give up and file for divorceHe is 2nd husband, kids are his step kids. Biological dad never been invlolved and he has been with me for the past 6 yrs. We have been married for 3 of those yrs. He is 33 and I am 36. I am his 2nd marriage as well

2007-04-18 16:13:26 Guillermo-Hays wrote: sounds like he is pretty immature and selfish,, if he wants to come and go as he pleases... then he shouldn't be married,,, my x had this same mind set.. doesn't work well in a marriage,, don't be surprised if he becomes your 2nd x husband.... good luck and i feel for you

2007-04-18 16:04:15 Johnsie-Nicholas wrote:

Gambling is a sin.
No one should do it.
That simple.

2007-04-18 16:09:01 Lou-Gibson wrote: Problem is he is right, you are trying to control him and tell him what to do gfed casino online gambling fre sign up bonus. Now I'm not saying that he should do these things, just that he is right in what he says. Fact is he is what he is and you want him to change. You wouldn't be very happy with him if he tried to change things that you didn't think were wrong. You over looked these problems with him when you decided to marry him. Therefore you gave up the right to complain about them now. That being said, you should divorce him and find a man without these bad traits. You will not be happy until you do online casino gambling online casino online gambling. Next time don't be so quick to get married and pick a better guy.2 new casino slots welcome bonus no deposit instant. if it were not for (1), this might be excusable irresponsible loser 1.

2007-04-18 16:14:58 Clarence-Minnie wrote: either the both of you get on the same page about the gambling and his need for counseling or you need to get out of this relationship quick because the gambling will destroy what you still have left. one of two things must happen.

2007-04-18 16:05:42 Clay-Pyle wrote: How old is he, He sounds a bit immature. I would tell him how you feel (thinking of divorce) and see what he says. If he is nonchalant about it - then divorce him and move on. We can not make people see our viewpoints or change for us.

2007-04-18 16:04:56 Dee-Fryer wrote:

I say get divorced.
He does not respect you and does not know what is best for you two.
End it before it gets worse.Well in a way he can't just come and go as he pleases, especially when it comes to your family money.
There is no "his money" anymore becuase he has a wife and kids now.
Gambling is a very touchy aread and many who have a problem go unnoticed, untreated or unconfronted for a long time.
I personally knew someone who lied to their wife about gambling until it came to a point when they were in vegas or reno for a anniversary get-a-way and he never went to bed the 1st night they were there, his wife came to find him and found him at the 0 black jack table saying "we need to talk".
He threw away 15 grand that night and earlier that year had cashed in investment portfolios and the kids' college funds.
I would seek gambling help and marriage counseling before jumping to divorce.
Everyone can or will have marriage problems, but it's always best to try every last resort before giving up.

2007-04-18 16:17:44 Marcia-Lambert wrote: he has an addiction,he needs to go to gamblers anonymous.i will side with you all the way on this one.you work as well from what you have said.don't let him make you feel like you are a kept woman.he sounds like a winner,sorry i myself am in a situation with my husband.he has different issues but the same behaviors.seek counseling first before you give up.if he will not go then you go for yourself.this is my 2nd marriage as well,so i know i have aided to the problems in my marriage.good luck

2007-04-18 16:05:48 Bethel-Buzzard wrote: this will sound horrible. but it sounds like has found another woman.go out with him some night.hopefully this is not the case. and he doesnt own you, if he doesnt listen to you, just kick his ass... hes being a prat

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2007-04-18 16:05:15 Zoraida-Cady wrote: im not sure how to help you, but i agree with you 100% that his actions are totally wrong